Enter code GETSAFE20 at checkout and get 20% off all purchases from Belli Cosmetics. This promotion will only be with us through Monday, December 1, so don't dilly-dally. Shipping is free with any order over $75 (otherwise, it's $9 for regular ground shipping).
Belli Cosmetics is a cosmetics company that caters specifically towards expectant and new mothers, although anyone can use their products, really. They tout themselves as being the "#1 recommended skin care brand by OB-GYNs," and even have a celebrity following.
I don't use the products myself, but I've heard much praise about their Elasticity Belly Oil and Acne Clearing Facial Wash, which is supposed to be the "safest acne solution for pregnancy," but it seems to be popular with those without child as well.
I won't lie: the products are a bit pricey. However, many women swear by them. Even if you don't think these products will suit you, try considering them as gifts for that next baby shower you attend.
Friday, November 28, 2008
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Back to MAC Program
Hey everyone. Happy Turkey Day Eve!
Makeup fanatic or not, I think pretty much everyone who is familiar with cosmetics is familiar with MAC.
And people who are familiar with MAC are also familiar with its charity work through the MAC Aids Fund. But did you know that MAC also has a program dedicated to environmental causes?
The Back to MAC Program is a recycling service MAC provides to its customers, along with an added incentive. Return any six MAC "primary packaging containers" (i.e. used/empty MAC eyeshadow containers, foundation bottles, lipstick tubes, etc.) and receive a free lipstick (Viva Glam lipsticks excluded). You can take advantage of this offer at any MAC counter or on MAC's website.
While I, personally, would rather choose to save myself the postage costs and go to my nearest store, I understand some of you might want to mail it in. For those of you who choose the latter, print and fill out this form. All the instructions are there.
Makeup fanatic or not, I think pretty much everyone who is familiar with cosmetics is familiar with MAC.
And people who are familiar with MAC are also familiar with its charity work through the MAC Aids Fund. But did you know that MAC also has a program dedicated to environmental causes?
The Back to MAC Program is a recycling service MAC provides to its customers, along with an added incentive. Return any six MAC "primary packaging containers" (i.e. used/empty MAC eyeshadow containers, foundation bottles, lipstick tubes, etc.) and receive a free lipstick (Viva Glam lipsticks excluded). You can take advantage of this offer at any MAC counter or on MAC's website.
While I, personally, would rather choose to save myself the postage costs and go to my nearest store, I understand some of you might want to mail it in. For those of you who choose the latter, print and fill out this form. All the instructions are there.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Shu Uemura Friends & Family Event
Through December 1, you can get 20% off plus free shipping on any Shu Uemura order with the code SHUFRIENDS. This deal is also available in their boutiques in Boston, San Francisco, and Costa Mesa (South Coast Plaza, y'all!).
Shu Uemura is a high-end, luxury cosmetics brand and, as such, is a bit more on the pricey side. But if you ever had the urge to try some of their stuff, this would be your chance. If you don't know where to begin, check out their bestsellers. Their mini eyelash curler was also featured on both Oprah's TV show and magazine. My own personal favorites include their lipsticks, blushes, and cleansing oils (treasured by most makeup fans, this stuff takes off a full face of makeup and rinses CLEAN off your face - literally, one-step cleansing).
Anyway, take a sec to browse and see if there's anything you like. Also, keep in mind that Ebates also has a cash back offer with Shu Uemura (5%). Happy shopping!
* NOTE: The discount codes that I mention anywhere on this blog/website, unless specified otherwise, are only valid on the company's website, and not with any other retailer (e.g. Sephora).
Monday, November 24, 2008
MAC Meets Hello Kitty!!!
To be released in February 2009, according to the grapevine.
There are makeup fanatics who go crazy and buy every new limited edition collection MAC puts out. I, myself, could never do that, but this is VERY tempting!!!
Sunday, November 23, 2008
My Choice for Best Lipsticks...
Since I don't wear makeup all too often, I always feel awkward whenever I recommend a certain product to someone. That being said, if I had to pick my favorite lipstick, my choice right now would be NARS lipsticks.
They come in 3 formulas: satin, semi-matte, and sheer. I can't speak for everyone, but I've noticed that most lipsticks dry the hell out of my lips after about 10 minutes of wear. With NARS, even the matte formula leaves your lips feeling nice and moist, like you just put on some lip balm.
My favorite, so far, is the sheer formula. The colors are highly pigmented (one swipe is usually enough) and buildable (meaning, depending on how much you put on, the colors can be light on your lips or deeply saturated). These lipsticks also leave your lips moisturized pretty much forever (or at least until you wipe it off) without leaving behind any of that greasy/slippery feeling some "moisturizing" lipsticks have. On top of that, there are no added scents or flavors, which I know is a big pet peeve for a lot of people.
NARS lipsticks are extremely popular among makeup fanatics. It has even won the 2008 Best of Sephora award (it was also last year's winner). I have to admit, the price tag is a little steep ($24 each), but this is one of those rare cases where you get what you pay for. NARS is available at Sephora and many higher-end department stores (like Nordstrom or Saks Fifth Avenue).
For those of us with tighter budgets, don't fret! I also have a choice for best drugstore lipstick because, in my opinion, Revlon's Super Lustrous Lipsticks come in at a VERY CLOSE second (we're talking photo finish here).
The quality of this lipstick is, I feel, better than most luxury/department store brands and is definitely on par with NARS. My only gripe is that there aren't a variety of textures. No matte, no sheer - it's only the one, full-finish color. But boy, does this lipstick leave your lips feeling SMOOOOOOOOOOOTH!!! No scents or flavors here either.
As you know, the one disadvantage of drugstore makeup is that you can't really try out the colors before you buy them. It's even harder with Revlon because they seal all of their products. As far as I know, Ulta is one of the only places where they have testers for drugstore brand makeup. If you don't have an Ulta near you, then here's a little trick. Look for a brand that doesn't seal their lipsticks, and test out their colors. When you find one that you like, look at the bottom of the lipstick, where you'll find a corresponding colored sticker (most makeup brands have this). Go over to the Revlon lipsticks and try to match up the colors of these stickers. More often than not, you'll get a pretty close match (make sure, though, that you pay attention to whether the lipstick is shimmery or not - Revlon will signify this with the words "creme" or "pearl"). If you mess up, just remember that you can return it (yes, you can get refunds on makeup from the drugstore!).
So, if you feel like you need a new lipstick, and are willing to indulge, then get yourself over to your nearest NARS counter. However, if you can't ever justify spending more than $10 on a lipstick, then definitely check out Revlon's Super Lustrous line (especially when stores have the buy-one-get-one-free deals). I assure you, you won't be disappointed either way.
They come in 3 formulas: satin, semi-matte, and sheer. I can't speak for everyone, but I've noticed that most lipsticks dry the hell out of my lips after about 10 minutes of wear. With NARS, even the matte formula leaves your lips feeling nice and moist, like you just put on some lip balm.
My favorite, so far, is the sheer formula. The colors are highly pigmented (one swipe is usually enough) and buildable (meaning, depending on how much you put on, the colors can be light on your lips or deeply saturated). These lipsticks also leave your lips moisturized pretty much forever (or at least until you wipe it off) without leaving behind any of that greasy/slippery feeling some "moisturizing" lipsticks have. On top of that, there are no added scents or flavors, which I know is a big pet peeve for a lot of people.
NARS lipsticks are extremely popular among makeup fanatics. It has even won the 2008 Best of Sephora award (it was also last year's winner). I have to admit, the price tag is a little steep ($24 each), but this is one of those rare cases where you get what you pay for. NARS is available at Sephora and many higher-end department stores (like Nordstrom or Saks Fifth Avenue).
For those of us with tighter budgets, don't fret! I also have a choice for best drugstore lipstick because, in my opinion, Revlon's Super Lustrous Lipsticks come in at a VERY CLOSE second (we're talking photo finish here).
The quality of this lipstick is, I feel, better than most luxury/department store brands and is definitely on par with NARS. My only gripe is that there aren't a variety of textures. No matte, no sheer - it's only the one, full-finish color. But boy, does this lipstick leave your lips feeling SMOOOOOOOOOOOTH!!! No scents or flavors here either.
As you know, the one disadvantage of drugstore makeup is that you can't really try out the colors before you buy them. It's even harder with Revlon because they seal all of their products. As far as I know, Ulta is one of the only places where they have testers for drugstore brand makeup. If you don't have an Ulta near you, then here's a little trick. Look for a brand that doesn't seal their lipsticks, and test out their colors. When you find one that you like, look at the bottom of the lipstick, where you'll find a corresponding colored sticker (most makeup brands have this). Go over to the Revlon lipsticks and try to match up the colors of these stickers. More often than not, you'll get a pretty close match (make sure, though, that you pay attention to whether the lipstick is shimmery or not - Revlon will signify this with the words "creme" or "pearl"). If you mess up, just remember that you can return it (yes, you can get refunds on makeup from the drugstore!).
So, if you feel like you need a new lipstick, and are willing to indulge, then get yourself over to your nearest NARS counter. However, if you can't ever justify spending more than $10 on a lipstick, then definitely check out Revlon's Super Lustrous line (especially when stores have the buy-one-get-one-free deals). I assure you, you won't be disappointed either way.
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Finding the Right Skin Care for Your Age
The other day, I was perusing the skin care aisle at Target and encountered two tween girls in serious deliberation. Girl A held up a motorized facial scrubber and insisted that it was the secret behind her great skin (mind you, these girls were at that age where they still have peach fuzz on their cheeks). Girl B was torn. She probably thought that the price was a little too steep for her allowance, but she ended up putting the mini face-sander into her basket anyway. Did either of these girls need this thing? Most likely not. But why did they buy it? Because they weren't aware that this product was not meant for them.
I think the same thing happens with people our age, in our 20s, 30s, and 40s. So many products exist in the world of skin care, all making (empty) promises of youth and beauty, and many of us (myself included) get sucked in. Unfortunately, many of us are also not yet ready to use some of these products either. For instance, did you know that people in their 20s (and some in their 30s) should stay away from anti-wrinkle and firming creams? Many women (and men) use these products as preventative treatments, but that's not how these things work. Most of these products "firm" the skin by tightening it and, subsequently, making it thin. Imagine what would happen to your skin if you started using these products prematurely. It would be like getting a face lift right now, albeit not that drastic. In the long run, though, you'd end up having to use more product and resort to stronger and even more drastic treatments later on down the line.
TotalBeauty.com, an online resource for - you guessed it - beauty and beauty products, has some tips for age-appropriate skin care. They break down what kinds of products you should use between ages 20 through 50, and they also include some product suggestions. According to them, people in their 20s, for instance, really only need to wash, moisturize, and treat specific skin conditions, like acne. They don't recommend daily exfoliation until your 30s, and no wrinkle treatments until you reach your 40s.
Total Beauty also has a skin analysis quiz, which is helpful in determining what kind of skin type you have, so that you can make more informed choices for your skin care regimen.
I think the same thing happens with people our age, in our 20s, 30s, and 40s. So many products exist in the world of skin care, all making (empty) promises of youth and beauty, and many of us (myself included) get sucked in. Unfortunately, many of us are also not yet ready to use some of these products either. For instance, did you know that people in their 20s (and some in their 30s) should stay away from anti-wrinkle and firming creams? Many women (and men) use these products as preventative treatments, but that's not how these things work. Most of these products "firm" the skin by tightening it and, subsequently, making it thin. Imagine what would happen to your skin if you started using these products prematurely. It would be like getting a face lift right now, albeit not that drastic. In the long run, though, you'd end up having to use more product and resort to stronger and even more drastic treatments later on down the line.
TotalBeauty.com, an online resource for - you guessed it - beauty and beauty products, has some tips for age-appropriate skin care. They break down what kinds of products you should use between ages 20 through 50, and they also include some product suggestions. According to them, people in their 20s, for instance, really only need to wash, moisturize, and treat specific skin conditions, like acne. They don't recommend daily exfoliation until your 30s, and no wrinkle treatments until you reach your 40s.
Total Beauty also has a skin analysis quiz, which is helpful in determining what kind of skin type you have, so that you can make more informed choices for your skin care regimen.
Friday, November 21, 2008
Custom-blended by Prescriptives
I think it's safe to say that EVERYONE who wears makeup (or even those who have considered wearing makeup), if they could wish for one thing, would like to have colors that are customized to complement them individually.
Prescriptives has long been known for its custom-blended makeup (foundations, lipsticks, powder, etc.). Now, they offer customers the chance to make their own custom-blended lip gloss ($26). You can choose from several colors, textures, finishes, and even flavors!
You can create a lip gloss through their website, but will be able to have a more customized blend by going to a participating Prescriptives counter near you.
Prescriptives has long been known for its custom-blended makeup (foundations, lipsticks, powder, etc.). Now, they offer customers the chance to make their own custom-blended lip gloss ($26). You can choose from several colors, textures, finishes, and even flavors!
You can create a lip gloss through their website, but will be able to have a more customized blend by going to a participating Prescriptives counter near you.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Another YouTube Makeup Tutorial Channel
I found another makeup tutorial channel on YouTube. This one is by MichellePhan (a.k.a. "RiceBunny").
I find that while her videos aren't as intimate as those by some of the other YouTube makeup artists (she doesn't talk directly to her audience on camera; it's all voice-over), they are very polished (they're EXTREMELY well edited), and the tutorials are easy to follow. She also has good taste in music, making the entire video-watching experience quite pleasurable.
I find that while her videos aren't as intimate as those by some of the other YouTube makeup artists (she doesn't talk directly to her audience on camera; it's all voice-over), they are very polished (they're EXTREMELY well edited), and the tutorials are easy to follow. She also has good taste in music, making the entire video-watching experience quite pleasurable.
Hard Candy 75% Off Sale
Times are rough, let me tell you! "Black Friday" has become "Black November" for many retailers.
I don't know what Hard Candy's deal is... Maybe it doesn't plan to be with us much longer? Who knows? But its 75% off sale is back!!! You get 75% off EVERYTHING online, no code needed (shipping is still $5 via USPS).
I am concerned, though, because between this 75% off sale and the one earlier this year, everything's been half off. AND you can't even find these products in stores anymore. Hmm... Is master Urban Decay trying to cut off this ailing limb?
In any case, most of this makeup is fairly good quality (it did have a fairly good run at Sephora back in the day). The packaging is cute, and the colors are nice and girly. With the 75% off deal, most products fall under $10. If anything, these could make good holiday gifts for tween girly girls.
I don't know what Hard Candy's deal is... Maybe it doesn't plan to be with us much longer? Who knows? But its 75% off sale is back!!! You get 75% off EVERYTHING online, no code needed (shipping is still $5 via USPS).
I am concerned, though, because between this 75% off sale and the one earlier this year, everything's been half off. AND you can't even find these products in stores anymore. Hmm... Is master Urban Decay trying to cut off this ailing limb?
In any case, most of this makeup is fairly good quality (it did have a fairly good run at Sephora back in the day). The packaging is cute, and the colors are nice and girly. With the 75% off deal, most products fall under $10. If anything, these could make good holiday gifts for tween girly girls.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Too Faced Friends & Family Event
Too Faced is offering a 25% discount on all purchases through Dec 3. Just enter the code "TFFriends" (without the quotation marks, of course) when you check out.
I'm not an avid user of Too Faced products, but I hear their Lash Injection mascara is worth checking out. People also say that the Shadow Insurance eyeshadow primer is pretty good, second only to cult favorite Eyeshadow Primer Potion from Urban Decay. Here's a list of their best sellers, just to give you an idea.
For a limited time, Too Faced is offering free shipping with any online order. Plus, each order gets a free sample of your choice. Win/win all the way!
I'm not an avid user of Too Faced products, but I hear their Lash Injection mascara is worth checking out. People also say that the Shadow Insurance eyeshadow primer is pretty good, second only to cult favorite Eyeshadow Primer Potion from Urban Decay. Here's a list of their best sellers, just to give you an idea.
For a limited time, Too Faced is offering free shipping with any online order. Plus, each order gets a free sample of your choice. Win/win all the way!
Tips for Online Makeup Shopping
Online shopping can always be a gamble due to the fact that you can't see the actual product you're planning to buy. Whenever you click on "Submit Order" when you're checking out, you're taking a big leap of faith, hoping that what you get in the mail a couple of weeks from now will be in good condition; will be exactly what you ordered; or will arrive at all.
Ordering makeup online is even scarier. Because everyone's computer monitors are calibrated differently, the colors you see on the websites could be spot on, or they could be light-years off. As such, the only benefit to ordering makeup online is for the convenience (not dealing with aggressive salespeople, or the possibility of making the trip only to find out what you want is sold out) and for the discounts. So, before you get yourself any more ahead in the checkout process online, I'd advise you to do the following:
Hopefully, these tips will help you in making an online cosmetics purchase that you'll be happy with. Happy shopping!
Ordering makeup online is even scarier. Because everyone's computer monitors are calibrated differently, the colors you see on the websites could be spot on, or they could be light-years off. As such, the only benefit to ordering makeup online is for the convenience (not dealing with aggressive salespeople, or the possibility of making the trip only to find out what you want is sold out) and for the discounts. So, before you get yourself any more ahead in the checkout process online, I'd advise you to do the following:
- 1. Go to your nearest makeup counter to swatch/try out the products you want.
Unfortunately, some online retailers do not allow you to return opened/used makeup. Going to the store is the only way you can try the products out beforehand. - 2. I've said this time and time again here on this blog: Visit Ebates.com and Retailmenot.com for cash back deals and promo codes.
Really, this is the only reason online shopping is more useful than going to your local store. Especially in today's economy, it's more important for you to make use of these discounts! - 3. If you don't particularly feel like getting yourself to the nearest Sephora, Ulta, mall, etc., then at least make sure you check out any online forums for product reviews.
Websites like Makeup Alley are filled with reviews and pictures by fellow members/users. If anything, you'll at least be able to make a better informed decision before you purchase.
Hopefully, these tips will help you in making an online cosmetics purchase that you'll be happy with. Happy shopping!
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Oh My God, Am I a Statistic???
A.k.a. "The Lipstick Index"
According to Wikipedia:
Why cosmetics? With money being tight, people apparently find themselves indulging in smaller luxuries, rather than bigger ones. The Lipstick Index, in particular, refers to the "phenomenon" of women spending money on lipstick over, say, a spa trip to Hawaii. Borderline sexist? Maybe. True? Most likely (I know it is for me).
Anyway, here's a recent article from the Fashion & Beauty Section of the New York Times, complete with their picks of this season's most popular colors. Enjoy!
P.S. If you're vulnerable like I am, just make sure you don't buy too many, or else you might just as well have saved up for that spa trip (or, in my case, that on-board mic for my video camera).
According to Wikipedia:
The lipstick index is a economic indicator. Purchases of cosmetics - lipstick in particular - tend to be inversely correlated to economic health. During bad economic times, purchases of cosmetics rise.
Why cosmetics? With money being tight, people apparently find themselves indulging in smaller luxuries, rather than bigger ones. The Lipstick Index, in particular, refers to the "phenomenon" of women spending money on lipstick over, say, a spa trip to Hawaii. Borderline sexist? Maybe. True? Most likely (I know it is for me).
Anyway, here's a recent article from the Fashion & Beauty Section of the New York Times, complete with their picks of this season's most popular colors. Enjoy!
P.S. If you're vulnerable like I am, just make sure you don't buy too many, or else you might just as well have saved up for that spa trip (or, in my case, that on-board mic for my video camera).
Monday, November 17, 2008
I'm BAAAAAAAAAACK!!!
It's been a week since I returned from my trip to the East Coast. Is it just me, or do you sometimes feel like you just need to take a break after coming back from vacation? If it was just a business trip, I don't think I would feel as pooped as I do now. All that walking and sightseeing... My poor feet needed some R&R when I got back (and how come my brain still thinks we're 3 hours ahead???). Anyway, I'm hoping I'll be able to kick myself back into gear after this weekend. Until then, ENJOY!!!
'Tis the Season
With holidays come all the special holiday deals. If you're like me, you've signed up to receive email newsletters on all the makeup websites and have started receiving emails about all the various holiday promotions and discounts. Here are a couple that are still good (many offers just expired within the last week, such as the Sephora 20% off event):
There are a few cosmetics companies that I haven't subscribed to, so there might be a few more online shops still offering discounts. Check out Retailmenot.com to get any discount codes I might have missed here.
If you miss any of these promotional discounts, just remember that online cosmetics shops regularly offer free shipping deals and the like, so even if you miss this one, as long as you are in the loop, another discount event will come your way.
- Urban Decay 30% Off code: FFH30 (Good until 11/18). This is for 30% off your entire purchase, before shipping costs. Shipping is free for purchases over $75, otherwise $5 for regular USPS shipping.
In case you're not familiar with Urban Decay, they're mostly known for their eye makeup, although check out their lipsticks with the little dagger on the end (can't really comment on the quality of the lipstick (heard it's quite good, but some people seem to dislike the caramel scent/flavor), but the packaging is very interesting). Urban Decay's packaging design and some of its products may give off an extreme rocker vibe, but they do have some "normal" colors in the mix that are great for everyday use. They also pride themselves for being cruelty free (some of their products are vegan, and they even won an award from PETA, like it or not). - LUSH Free $20 Gift code: LL20GIFT08 (Good until 11/28). This is for a free $20 LUSH gift package on purchases over $50. The gift you get isn't your typical "free gift with purchase"; this is a free wrapped box set that is normally available for purchase from LUSH, although your choices will be limited to what LUSH is offering for this particular promo. You can buy a few things for yourself, a few things for your Mom or best friend, and have your Secret Santa gift for work taken care of. Not only that, but LUSH also throws in a few interesting samples with every online order.
LUSH is known for their organic, all natural bath and body products. I'm currently using their skincare products, solid shampoos, and body butters. I also LOVE their soaps (they are the softest, creamiest soaps I have ever used). A lot of their products are preservative-free and, therefore, have a short shelf-life, so keep that in mind when you buy.
There are a few cosmetics companies that I haven't subscribed to, so there might be a few more online shops still offering discounts. Check out Retailmenot.com to get any discount codes I might have missed here.
If you miss any of these promotional discounts, just remember that online cosmetics shops regularly offer free shipping deals and the like, so even if you miss this one, as long as you are in the loop, another discount event will come your way.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
MSNBC Keith Olbermann's Commentary on California's Prop. 8 and Gay Marriage
Right on!
I never understand why SOME people feel it's necessary for the government to take away the civil rights of certain groups of people, yet seem to go ape-shit (pardon my Français) when the government seems to even remotely encroach upon their own lives (e.g. gun restriction laws, raising taxes, lowering the speed limit on a certain part of the highway, etc.). There are some people I don't like either, but I would NEVER want the government to criminalize them based on my own personal opinion of them.
If you truly believe in God, and you believe God is the only One to deliver judgment, then you would do better than to have the government take away people's civil rights based on YOUR OWN judgment (because, yes, it is your own, as you reached your decision based on your own interpretation of the Word, or another's interpretation of it with which you agreed). But, most importantly, if you believe that God loves, then surely you can also believe that His love extends to all people, regardless of our differences.
I can only pray that this injustice towards our brothers and sisters will be overturned soon.
I never understand why SOME people feel it's necessary for the government to take away the civil rights of certain groups of people, yet seem to go ape-shit (pardon my Français) when the government seems to even remotely encroach upon their own lives (e.g. gun restriction laws, raising taxes, lowering the speed limit on a certain part of the highway, etc.). There are some people I don't like either, but I would NEVER want the government to criminalize them based on my own personal opinion of them.
If you truly believe in God, and you believe God is the only One to deliver judgment, then you would do better than to have the government take away people's civil rights based on YOUR OWN judgment (because, yes, it is your own, as you reached your decision based on your own interpretation of the Word, or another's interpretation of it with which you agreed). But, most importantly, if you believe that God loves, then surely you can also believe that His love extends to all people, regardless of our differences.
I can only pray that this injustice towards our brothers and sisters will be overturned soon.
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Monday, November 10, 2008
YouTube Make-up Tutorials
Thank GOD for YouTube! Without it, we wouldn't be able to watch all those great TV shows or movies from overseas, that episode of whatever we missed last night, or that episode of whatever we missed 10 years ago, and that video of that kid who wants everyone to leave Britney alone... Okay, so it does have its negative side, too.
Anyway, one of the things that YouTube has also brought to us is a plethora of tutorials for a variety of disciplines. One such discipline is cosmetics/make-up. YouTube has a bevy of make-up arists (aspiring and professional alike) creating tutorials for us gals (and guys) who want to know everything from glamorous make-up looks to special effects make-up looks.
I haven't had time to sit down and watch ALL of them, but I have found 2 YouTube make-up artists that I like and whose tutorial channels I have subscribed to and have become a fan of:
Scandalous Beauty (a.k.a. "Erin")
and Panacea81 (a.k.a. "Lauren")
I think the one thing that turns some women, including myself, off of cosmetics and make-up is that they don't know how to apply it (properly or at all) and, therefore, are intimidated. These two ladies are very personable and are GREAT at showing you how much fun you can have with all the colors make-up has to offer. Rather than using it as a way to subscribe to some sort of standard of femininity and/or beauty, make-up can really be used to create a bold statement of one's individuality. ... Sorry, get too philosophical there for you? ;-)
Anyway, so, yeah. Ladies and gentlemen, don't let make-up intimidate you. Go onto YouTube, grab a few tips from the thousands of skilled make-up artists online, and JUST. HAVE. FUN. !!!
Anyway, one of the things that YouTube has also brought to us is a plethora of tutorials for a variety of disciplines. One such discipline is cosmetics/make-up. YouTube has a bevy of make-up arists (aspiring and professional alike) creating tutorials for us gals (and guys) who want to know everything from glamorous make-up looks to special effects make-up looks.
I haven't had time to sit down and watch ALL of them, but I have found 2 YouTube make-up artists that I like and whose tutorial channels I have subscribed to and have become a fan of:
Scandalous Beauty (a.k.a. "Erin")
and Panacea81 (a.k.a. "Lauren")
I think the one thing that turns some women, including myself, off of cosmetics and make-up is that they don't know how to apply it (properly or at all) and, therefore, are intimidated. These two ladies are very personable and are GREAT at showing you how much fun you can have with all the colors make-up has to offer. Rather than using it as a way to subscribe to some sort of standard of femininity and/or beauty, make-up can really be used to create a bold statement of one's individuality. ... Sorry, get too philosophical there for you? ;-)
Anyway, so, yeah. Ladies and gentlemen, don't let make-up intimidate you. Go onto YouTube, grab a few tips from the thousands of skilled make-up artists online, and JUST. HAVE. FUN. !!!
Friday, November 7, 2008
10 Ways to Be Happier
How happy are you, really? If there’s room for improvement, then Gretchen Rubin has some suggestions.
A few years ago, on a morning like any other, I had a sudden realization: I was in danger of wasting my life. As I stared out the rain-spattered window of a New York City bus, I saw that the years were slipping by.
“What do I want from life?” I asked myself. “Well... I want to be happy.” I had many reasons to be happy: My husband was the tall, dark, handsome love of my life; we had two delightful girls, ages 1 and 7; I was a writer, living in my favorite city. I had friends; I had my health; I didn’t have to color my hair. But too often I sniped at my husband or the drugstore clerk. I felt dejected after even a minor professional setback. I lost my temper easily. Is that how a happy person would act?
I decided on the spot to begin a systematic study of happiness. (A little intense, I know. But that’s the kind of thing that appeals to me.) In the end, I spent a year test-driving the wisdom of the ages, current scientific studies, and tips from popular culture. If I followed all the advice, I wanted to know, would it work?
Well, the year is over, and I can say: It did. I made myself happier. And along the way I learned a lot about how to be happier. Here are those lessons.
1. Don’t start with profundities.
When I began my Happiness Project, I realized pretty quickly that, rather than jumping in with lengthy daily meditation or answering deep questions of self-identity, I should start with the basics, like going to sleep at a decent hour and not letting myself get too hungry. Science backs this up; these two factors have a big impact on happiness.
2. Do let the sun go down on anger.
I had always scrupulously aired every irritation as soon as possible, to make sure I vented all bad feelings before bedtime. Studies show, however, that the notion of anger catharsis is poppycock. Expressing anger related to minor, fleeting annoyances just amplifies bad feelings, while not expressing anger often allows it to dissipate.
3. Fake it til you feel it.
Feelings follow actions. If I’m feeling low, I deliberately act cheery, and I find myself actually feeling happier. If I’m feeling angry at someone, I do something thoughtful for her and my feelings toward her soften.
4. Realize that anything worth doing is worth doing badly.
Challenge and novelty are key elements of happiness. The brain is stimulated by surprise, and successfully dealing with an unexpected situation gives a powerful sense of satisfaction. People who do new things — learn a game, travel to unfamiliar places — are happier than people who stick to familiar activities that they already do well. I often remind myself to “Enjoy the fun of failure” and tackle some daunting goal.
5. Don’t treat the blues with a “treat.”
Often the things I choose as “treats” aren’t good for me. The pleasure lasts a minute, but then feelings of guilt and loss of control and other negative consequences deepen the lousiness of the day. While it’s easy to think, I’ll feel good after I have a few glasses of wine... a pint of ice cream... a cigarette... a new pair of jeans, it’s worth pausing to ask whether this will truly make things better.
6. Buy some happiness.
Our basic psychological needs include feeling loved, secure, and good at what we do and having a sense of control. Money doesn’t automatically fill these requirements, but it sure can help. I’ve learned to look for ways to spend money to stay in closer contact with my family and friends; to promote my health; to work more efficiently; to eliminate sources of irritation and marital conflict; to support important causes; and to have enlarging experiences. For example, when my sister got married, I splurged on a better digital camera. It was expensive, but it gave me a lot of happiness bang for the buck.
7. Don’t insist on the best.
There are two types of decision makers. Satisficers (yes, satisficers) make a decision once their criteria are met. When they find the hotel or the pasta sauce that has the qualities they want, they’re satisfied. Maximizers want to make the best possible decision. Even if they see a bicycle or a backpack that meets their requirements, they can’t make a decision until they’ve examined every option. Satisficers tend to be happier than maximizers. Maximizers expend more time and energy reaching decisions, and they’re often anxious about their choices. Sometimes good enough is good enough.
8. Exercise to boost energy.
I knew, intellectually, that this worked, but how often have I told myself, “I’m just too tired to go to the gym”? Exercise is one of the most dependable mood-boosters. Even a 10-minute walk can brighten my outlook.
9. Stop nagging.
I knew my nagging wasn’t working particularly well, but I figured that if I stopped, my husband would never do a thing around the house. Wrong. If anything, more work got done. Plus, I got a surprisingly big happiness boost from quitting nagging. I hadn’t realized how shrewish and angry I had felt as a result of speaking like that. I replaced nagging with the following persuasive tools: wordless hints (for example, leaving a new lightbulb on the counter); using just one word (saying “Milk!” instead of talking on and on); not insisting that something be done on my schedule; and, most effective of all, doing a task myself. Why did I get to set the assignments?
10. Take action.
Some people assume happiness is mostly a matter of inborn temperament: You’re born an Eeyore or a Tigger, and that’s that. Although it’s true that genetics play a big role, about 40 percent of your happiness level is within your control. Taking time to reflect, and conscious steps to make your life happier, really does work. So use these tips to start your own Happiness Project. I promise it won’t take you a whole year.
About the Author
Gretchen Rubin is the author of several books, and she keeps a daily blog at www.happiness-project.com. Her next book, The Happiness Project, will be published in late 2009. She lives in New York City with her husband and two daughters.
Thanks to Maria, who first forwarded this to me!
A few years ago, on a morning like any other, I had a sudden realization: I was in danger of wasting my life. As I stared out the rain-spattered window of a New York City bus, I saw that the years were slipping by.
“What do I want from life?” I asked myself. “Well... I want to be happy.” I had many reasons to be happy: My husband was the tall, dark, handsome love of my life; we had two delightful girls, ages 1 and 7; I was a writer, living in my favorite city. I had friends; I had my health; I didn’t have to color my hair. But too often I sniped at my husband or the drugstore clerk. I felt dejected after even a minor professional setback. I lost my temper easily. Is that how a happy person would act?
I decided on the spot to begin a systematic study of happiness. (A little intense, I know. But that’s the kind of thing that appeals to me.) In the end, I spent a year test-driving the wisdom of the ages, current scientific studies, and tips from popular culture. If I followed all the advice, I wanted to know, would it work?
Well, the year is over, and I can say: It did. I made myself happier. And along the way I learned a lot about how to be happier. Here are those lessons.
1. Don’t start with profundities.
When I began my Happiness Project, I realized pretty quickly that, rather than jumping in with lengthy daily meditation or answering deep questions of self-identity, I should start with the basics, like going to sleep at a decent hour and not letting myself get too hungry. Science backs this up; these two factors have a big impact on happiness.
2. Do let the sun go down on anger.
I had always scrupulously aired every irritation as soon as possible, to make sure I vented all bad feelings before bedtime. Studies show, however, that the notion of anger catharsis is poppycock. Expressing anger related to minor, fleeting annoyances just amplifies bad feelings, while not expressing anger often allows it to dissipate.
3. Fake it til you feel it.
Feelings follow actions. If I’m feeling low, I deliberately act cheery, and I find myself actually feeling happier. If I’m feeling angry at someone, I do something thoughtful for her and my feelings toward her soften.
4. Realize that anything worth doing is worth doing badly.
Challenge and novelty are key elements of happiness. The brain is stimulated by surprise, and successfully dealing with an unexpected situation gives a powerful sense of satisfaction. People who do new things — learn a game, travel to unfamiliar places — are happier than people who stick to familiar activities that they already do well. I often remind myself to “Enjoy the fun of failure” and tackle some daunting goal.
5. Don’t treat the blues with a “treat.”
Often the things I choose as “treats” aren’t good for me. The pleasure lasts a minute, but then feelings of guilt and loss of control and other negative consequences deepen the lousiness of the day. While it’s easy to think, I’ll feel good after I have a few glasses of wine... a pint of ice cream... a cigarette... a new pair of jeans, it’s worth pausing to ask whether this will truly make things better.
6. Buy some happiness.
Our basic psychological needs include feeling loved, secure, and good at what we do and having a sense of control. Money doesn’t automatically fill these requirements, but it sure can help. I’ve learned to look for ways to spend money to stay in closer contact with my family and friends; to promote my health; to work more efficiently; to eliminate sources of irritation and marital conflict; to support important causes; and to have enlarging experiences. For example, when my sister got married, I splurged on a better digital camera. It was expensive, but it gave me a lot of happiness bang for the buck.
7. Don’t insist on the best.
There are two types of decision makers. Satisficers (yes, satisficers) make a decision once their criteria are met. When they find the hotel or the pasta sauce that has the qualities they want, they’re satisfied. Maximizers want to make the best possible decision. Even if they see a bicycle or a backpack that meets their requirements, they can’t make a decision until they’ve examined every option. Satisficers tend to be happier than maximizers. Maximizers expend more time and energy reaching decisions, and they’re often anxious about their choices. Sometimes good enough is good enough.
8. Exercise to boost energy.
I knew, intellectually, that this worked, but how often have I told myself, “I’m just too tired to go to the gym”? Exercise is one of the most dependable mood-boosters. Even a 10-minute walk can brighten my outlook.
9. Stop nagging.
I knew my nagging wasn’t working particularly well, but I figured that if I stopped, my husband would never do a thing around the house. Wrong. If anything, more work got done. Plus, I got a surprisingly big happiness boost from quitting nagging. I hadn’t realized how shrewish and angry I had felt as a result of speaking like that. I replaced nagging with the following persuasive tools: wordless hints (for example, leaving a new lightbulb on the counter); using just one word (saying “Milk!” instead of talking on and on); not insisting that something be done on my schedule; and, most effective of all, doing a task myself. Why did I get to set the assignments?
10. Take action.
Some people assume happiness is mostly a matter of inborn temperament: You’re born an Eeyore or a Tigger, and that’s that. Although it’s true that genetics play a big role, about 40 percent of your happiness level is within your control. Taking time to reflect, and conscious steps to make your life happier, really does work. So use these tips to start your own Happiness Project. I promise it won’t take you a whole year.
About the Author
Gretchen Rubin is the author of several books, and she keeps a daily blog at www.happiness-project.com. Her next book, The Happiness Project, will be published in late 2009. She lives in New York City with her husband and two daughters.
Thanks to Maria, who first forwarded this to me!
Five Reasons Why I Prefer to Shop Sephora Online
1. Opportunity for Ebates cash back.
2. Great promotional gifts and deals (check Retailmenot.com for current promo codes).
3. You get 3 free samples with every purchase.
4. You get free shipping with any purchase of $50 or more. Even if you do have to pay for shipping, what with the cost of gas and all (unless you've got a Sephora down the street), you'll pretty much break even anyway.
5. There's a larger selection of items online.
Be sure to take advantage of the Holiday Friends and Family Discount (20% off your entire purchase!) by entering FF2008 when you check out.
Sephora.com
2. Great promotional gifts and deals (check Retailmenot.com for current promo codes).
3. You get 3 free samples with every purchase.
4. You get free shipping with any purchase of $50 or more. Even if you do have to pay for shipping, what with the cost of gas and all (unless you've got a Sephora down the street), you'll pretty much break even anyway.
5. There's a larger selection of items online.
Be sure to take advantage of the Holiday Friends and Family Discount (20% off your entire purchase!) by entering FF2008 when you check out.
Sephora.com
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
I LOVE Ebates!!!
Hey everyone! Ebates just got better! Many of their affiliated online retailers doubled their cash back bonuses in time for holiday shopping. Sephora, for example, went from 4% cash back to 8% cash back! Log into your Ebates account or check out their website to see all of their deals!
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Roam If You Want To...
Roam around the world...
I used to really love that song. Still think it's a great song. ... Anyway, a quick update with my travels. Left New York the morning after Halloween (fun times!). Said "good-bye" to my friends Huy and Joe (who kindly let me crash at their place while I was there) and took a cab to Penn Station, where I caught a train down to Washington, D.C., en route to Chicago. Had a 4-hour layover there, which gave me a chance to catch up with my friends Chris and Erika (friends from film school who recently relocated to D.C.). Had lunch and a quick tour of our nation's capitol before I had to hop back on the train to Chicago, which is where I am now.
Riding the train is fun, but I don't think I would ever recommend going on a train ride that lasts longer than a day. The seats are roomy and comfy, but 20 hours of sitting down is no joke. However, seeing all the glory that is small town Americana is worth the trip (if you're into that sort of thing, which I am).
Anyway, arrived this morning at Chicago Union Station, where I was met by my brother. Dropped the luggage off, then hit the 'L' train down to Chinatown, where we gorged ourselves with some crazy fabulous dim sum (really, it was GREAT!). Whatever weight I lost last week walking all over New York and eating vegetarian all the time (both my employers and my friends are vegetarian), I think I gained it all back in that one sitting at Happy Chef. ... Oh well.
Hope everyone is doing well! Next stop on my trip: FLORIDA!!! X-D
I used to really love that song. Still think it's a great song. ... Anyway, a quick update with my travels. Left New York the morning after Halloween (fun times!). Said "good-bye" to my friends Huy and Joe (who kindly let me crash at their place while I was there) and took a cab to Penn Station, where I caught a train down to Washington, D.C., en route to Chicago. Had a 4-hour layover there, which gave me a chance to catch up with my friends Chris and Erika (friends from film school who recently relocated to D.C.). Had lunch and a quick tour of our nation's capitol before I had to hop back on the train to Chicago, which is where I am now.
Riding the train is fun, but I don't think I would ever recommend going on a train ride that lasts longer than a day. The seats are roomy and comfy, but 20 hours of sitting down is no joke. However, seeing all the glory that is small town Americana is worth the trip (if you're into that sort of thing, which I am).
Anyway, arrived this morning at Chicago Union Station, where I was met by my brother. Dropped the luggage off, then hit the 'L' train down to Chinatown, where we gorged ourselves with some crazy fabulous dim sum (really, it was GREAT!). Whatever weight I lost last week walking all over New York and eating vegetarian all the time (both my employers and my friends are vegetarian), I think I gained it all back in that one sitting at Happy Chef. ... Oh well.
Hope everyone is doing well! Next stop on my trip: FLORIDA!!! X-D
Happy Belated Halloween!!!
Hope everyone had a good Halloween! I know I did! ;-)
(That's me and my friend Huy getting ready for a night of Halloween party-hopping in Brooklyn.)
(That's me and my friend Huy getting ready for a night of Halloween party-hopping in Brooklyn.)
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